too many thoughts are wandering in my mind, most about relationship and self improvement
no clear perspectives until today, VJ proposed to Alex, successfully
I feel it when he post 2 status on Facebook
and I was just reminded that this is not a total surprise, since in last party at VJ's place, he was able to read her mind and any emotional disturbance everyone else barely noticed, the most important, he handled these so naturally and felt so relaxed to share them with us.
yes, they are ready, though i know it would be determined by the man, woman always wants it.
this sincere happiness brings up two movies/TV shows.
in "wedding singer", the girl wants to sit besides the window since she never sees the ocean from a plane, her finance just rejects because he will be disturbed more often when sitting along the aisle. This is an example and test bench for "true love" in the movie, believe it or not. I am buying it ...
the second is the "happy" ending of Carrie and Big in the TV series, forget about the movie. I didn't like it because I was losing the faith in "the one". and I have probably been approaching to Aiden-style more, commitment instead of passion. but i just realized, Aiden failed because he didn't live in carrie's fantasy, though he has the commitment and she wanted it. maybe there is "the one"? you don't need to take so much energy to work on trivial things in your relationship. Disagreement is allowed, but agreement is more appreciated.
people do behave more caring and responsible in love or even a serious relationship, not valid for jp.